Divorce

Wedding and divorce are equal by emotions. There is an only difference. In the first case emotions are positive (usually). In the second case they are definitely negative. Irritation, displeasure, disappointment, hate at least. A couple comes to the conclusion that their characters are different and it is to worthy to continue. The happy movie is over. But they say that it is possible to create a re-make.

There is an old way to understand what you really want to do – to make the list of the advantages and disadvantages of "for" and "against". It is a simple method which is recommended by the psychologists, sometimes it works.

In some cases, the reasons of the divorce are in the personal problems of one of partners. For example, a man does not feel respected in a family. A woman does not feel trusted. As a result, irritation grows up. Perhaps, irritation is just a result of the psychological incapability. If you are not going to rush the things, think a little. Perhaps, you might be more understanding, tolerant and patient. It can result into sympathy, maybe tenderness and love. At least the start was great. Why is the finish so horrible?

Before, you had the financial and psychological troubles, but you managed to cope with them becoming a winner in every situation? So, what happen? When you start to blame a partner in all your troubles, so, unfortunately, the relationship is dead. It is impossible to change an adult, his character.

If you fail in solving the disagreements, so, it is high time to dot your "i's" and cross your "t's". They say that in such a case everybody should remember that the personal problems are not to be transfer to the new relations.

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1. 1. Family "Titanic" risks crashing if one of the partners (or both of them) is not ready to the relationship and building a family together. Yes, a one-side work is just a half of the way. The work is to be mutual.
2. 2. Unfortunately sometimes people start a family with some myths in their heads. It results into many disappointments in the future. As a matter of fact, a family is to be cherished. The mistakes will go away, but the experience will be left.
3. 3. The theory of equality in the relationship tends to become very popular for the last years. A free-will marriage creates a positive base for the peaceful discussing of the rights and duties in a family.
4. 4. An emotional connection produces harmony in every sphere of a family life. But the intimate harmony can not replace warmth, understanding, support, stability in a family.
5. 5. It seems to me that the most correct way to keep a good relationship in a family is to love a person for what he/she is. But if you are willing to change something in a character of your partner, it is better to be ready to change some treats of yours as well.