Don't wash your dirty linen in public
I have a friend who assures me that he will not live with the parents after his wedding. So, there is sense in his words. The specialists say that a young couple is to live apart after becoming a husband and a wife as they start own family and do not need any interference of the parents. Perhaps, that is why there is a large amount of the funny stories about the mothers-in-law and fathers-in-law. The truth is that a young couple is not a part of a large family any more. They create their family and they are to learn how it is like – live together, solve the problems and enjoy the joys together.
For example, you begin to argue about some duty. You can not find the way out, everybody is too stubborn, and you begin to shout which makes the situation worse. A husband smokes outdoors. A wife phones her mother to complain and cry. A mom arrives to take a naughty son-in-law in hand. The more people it involves, the worse is result. A big ball is formed with the participation of the fathers, mothers, cousins, uncles and aunts. Is it something you really want? Or you just wish to solve the problem and return to peaceful living next to your beloved?
Of course, positive piece of advice is possible, but very rarely. More often, light quarreling is to be discusses by young people without interfering of the relatives and especially strange people.
If you do not wish to break a family, do not allow the neighbors giving you a piece of advice. Nowadays the internet consulting becomes very popular. It seems to me that it is a good way to learn what you need, find out the experience of other people and some answers too.