Large family
An only child makes the troubles. But imagine three, four, five etc. of them. Parents' happiness goes to the background in such a case. The main goal is to make the children happy – full, well-dressed, well-educated, well-bred. In a large family the parents try to arrange their life in such a way to have an opportunity to work, do house core and devote some time to the children. Congenial atmosphere in a large family is possible with the condition of the correct time management. Usually everything is to be made quickly. Actually, it is hard to do with two children. Three children make chaos usually. So, the psychologists recommend involving the elder children to upbringing of the youngest ones. Let the elder kids help to bring babies to the kindergarten, switch on a washing machine or wash the dishes after dinner.
They say that a child needs only half an hour communication per day. The parents are advised to devote some time to the communication during breakfast, at shop, after school, in a car, on the way home. The main condition is to be really interested in the childish stories. At least it is important to him to ask a piece of advice or to complain about a new teacher.
The things are more complicated with the conflicts between the siblings. It is important to be just in solving the conflicts or turn the situation into a joke, but hold a conversation with the children apart.
Hm, it seems to be a great work which requires much physiological strength and wisdom.