The popular myths
When I am writing about the fairy-tales, I do not mean its magical nature, actually. I mean the reality with the elements of your own idea about an ideal family. Unfortunately sometimes people start a family with some myths in their heads. It results into many disappointments in the future. So, let's try to check some of them.
A family life is happy forever. No, or we would not speak about it right now. It consists of many reefs which are not terrible, but very simple to get over if you know how.
A man is to earn, a woman is to keep house. Definitely, no. A woman and a man are to decide what they want. Without stereotypes and extremes.
If he/she loves me, he/she will do everything possible to please me. It is a very doubtful statement. Are you ready to confess that you make everything for your second half as well? Ask this question yourself. And be frank with yourself. You are the last person to hide the truth of.
Sex is excellent. The rest will come. Sex is total physiology. Sex which is not supported with common goals and interests, emotional closeness and empathy promises to become boring one day. And a person will start to seek for emotional warmth elsewhere.
Where is he/she to go now? Don't be so assured. There are not irreplaceable people. Of course, your partner adores you. He/she does not imagine a life without you. But he/she waits for the same in return. One-side love could make a person think about it carefully. So, work on yourself and the relations.
Dreaming about a wedding. A young woman is planning a wedding ceremony, but not a family life. Dead end.
As a matter of fact, a family is to be cherished. The mistakes will go away, but the experience will be left.