The rights and duties
It is my favorite issue of a family topic. Once I played a game with my friends. I had to show some notion in gestures. I got word "equality". The theory of equality in the relationship tends to become very popular for the last years. At least, before, the duties were strictly divided into the woman's and man's ones. A man is to earn money; a woman is to care about a family. Nowadays the things are very different. For example, there are some wives who do not wait for a man to hammer. Some men do not feel disgust to cook supper. In addition, the fact that both –a man and a woman – make contribution into the family finances is a plus to equality. I guess the families which are created with mutual desire are more likely happy than the families "under compulsion". A free-will marriage creates a positive base for the peaceful discussing of the rights and duties in a family. At least every family builds the unique relationship. Though, arguing about the dirty dishes does not burn out. A wife does not beg a husband to take the children from the kindergarten in evening as it is accepted like the natural event, not like a duty.
Married people accept the duties with the word "yes" in an official registration institution like a guarantee that a partner is ready to return. Anyway, it is better to speak about the trifles. Perhaps, a partner has a screw about something. But as for the rights, they can be various in a family. So, it is worthy discussing them very carefully – finances, home, children, sex, emotions, work – don't miss anything, because it can be in use in the future. At least a person plans to spend a life time with his/her beloved.